How we face problems

We all face problems from time to time, especially in relationship with the others. And our reaction on such problems can be different. But the scientists say, there are only 3 types of it:

1) fight 2) passivity, and 3) flight.

1) Fight is the most natural and the healthiest reaction. The body and mind doesn’t stand psychosomatic damage. The gotten strike is transformed into a retaliatory response. But such an act may result some negative consequences. A man can enter a circle of constant aggression. And finally he’ll meet someone who is stronger than him and who crushes him.

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7 Ways to Run into Debt

The personal financial consultants and analysts often ask their clients the same question about how did an average person run into such a huge debt. One of the specialist who preferred his name to remain unpublished tells about a number of ways to incur an enormous debt in a short time. We hope that this information concerning the danger to go on the hook will help you to organize your family or personal budget wisely to avoid this complicated situation.

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Online Writing Competitions

The writing competitions existed long before there appeared the online ones and usually were quite long as the work of the authors were sent via mail. The jury though consisted of the well-known and respectful writers. The winner was lucky to be accepted to the writers society and the way to the great literature became open for him. The vast amount of the present-day contests are held by the amateurs and the skills of the competitors don’t always exceed the ones of the jury. But there are still some annual competitions that provide a real free pass to the literature Olympus for the talented authors. There are many experienced writers participating n these contests as well as the gifted beginners who present their first works.

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Aspects of love.

Sometimes it turns out that it is difficult to love. Why so? Well, you may love someone and may hurt this person at the same time. And you may even not to notice it. It may seem to you that everything is fine but it turns out that your partner suffers. Unfortunately it happens to us. Love requires respect and patience, attention and inspiration. Otherwise you would fail. Even mutual love may make you feel sad and disappointed. It is hard to understand it I know.

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Upshifting – Reverse Change of Priorities

Several years ago it was extremely popular to leave big cities for the relaxed life on some exotic islands. However, sometimes this downshifting presented the illusion of escape rather than moving in the right direction. Now people tend to return to civilization, and this up-shifting process should not be viewed as the crash of golden downshifter’s dream, but as a new stage of personal development.

For people milled by megalopolises downshifting seems to be the solution of all problems and the cure of all spiritual diseases. Of course, it is difficult to solve the problems of unhappy marriage, very much hated job and crazy rhyme of life one by one. It is far easier to buy a ticket, rent an apartment and leave all this mess behind. However, the joy from this escape disappears as fast as the effect of placebo medicine. Downshifting is an escape from external problems, but you will by no means run from yourself. Sitting on the beach and listening to the sounds of the sea you will face the real you, defenseless in front of your sufferings and reflection. The fact is, the laws of human society work in any place be it Manhattan or Goa. If you are not satisfied with your relations with the world, the escape will not help you much.

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How to Tell a Story in Pictures

Comics are, perhaps, the most ancient art in the world. People needed to exchange information and they invented the method of telling a story through a serial row of pictures. Later they begin to add words to these pictures and thus comic art has appeared. Writing comics is not the same as writing a book. You should always remember that comic book is the result of co-working of the writer and the artist, and it will be the artist who will transfer your ideas to the readers, so your task is to provide him with precise instructions.

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How to get turned on by your fat husband

Finding your love is not as difficult as it seems. You meet, first you start liking each other then you fall in love. But keeping your love is a challenge. When all the passion has gone away you can try to re-capture it. Here are some thoughts:

1. You can look at your husband from behind (you can’t see his belly this way), and imagine he looks like Ryan Gosling or Joe Manganiello. When you do this ‘exercise’ the main thing is – to prevent your husband from turning around and ruining the impression. While looking at him from behind you can face the following issue – the bold. You can buy him a hat as a gift and ask him to wear it. Your husband doesn’t have to know what you are doing.

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