Sometimes it turns out that it is difficult to love. Why so? Well, you may love someone and may hurt this person at the same time. And you may even not to notice it. It may seem to you that everything is fine but it turns out that your partner suffers. Unfortunately it happens to us. Love requires respect and patience, attention and inspiration. Otherwise you would fail. Even mutual love may make you feel sad and disappointed. It is hard to understand it I know.
If it seems to you that you have some problems then you should work it out. You should not only respect and admire your partner but understand him. Sometimes it is very difficult. Understanding is a must of your relations, of your love. You may be attracted to your partner physically and emotionally. But if you do not understand each other then sooner or later it would be quite difficult for both of you to communicate with each other.
Love must bring joy into your life. Even though there are ups and downs in your relations try to accept everything positively. You are with a person you love. What might be better? Have fun and play it cool! And remember what Mark Twain once said about it, “To get the full value of joy you must have someone to divide it with”. That’s true!
If you love your partner then you are proud of him. It means an ability to rejoice at happiness of your beloved person. Strangely enough but some partners are not able to share happiness and achievements of his or her partner. If it is true love then you should learn to be proud of your partner.
If you love someone with all your heart it means that you are interested in person you love. It means that you are not indifferent to everything happens to him. It is very important. Otherwise what for are you together?
You should not limit your partner’s freedom. It is difficult sometimes I know. But if you love your partner then let him feel free. I do not mean free love or open marriage. I mean trust and faith.
Be grateful to your partner for absolutely everything he has done to you. It is very important. Appreciate attention he pays to you. Eventually people neglect it. But true love is based on it.